To install this plugin just place its directory (tabbedcon) 
into Tkabber's plugin directory. Most likely it is either 
~/.tkabber/plugins
or
X:\Documents and Settings\YourUser\Application Data\Tkabber\plugins
where X: is the drive your system is installed on.

So, you'll have something like this:
~/.tkabber/plugins/highlightex/tabbedcon.tcl
or
X:\Documents and Settings\YourUser\Application Data\Tkabber\plugins\highlightex\tabbedcon.tcl

After that you have to restart Tkabber.
